2026 Resolutions!

Sunday, January 4, 2026

Aljay and I sat down together as a couple to plan out the year, share our individual goals, and set intentions for our family. What started as a simple planning session turned into a really beautiful, almost therapeutic conversation, where we both opened up about how recent health scares have impacted us.

Aljay shared how my sudden kidney stone trip to the ER was a huge scare for him and became the moment that jump-started his decision to take his weight-loss journey seriously. Since then, that journey has brought several positive changes—boosting his confidence, pushing him outside his comfort zone, and encouraging him to be more vulnerable. He also shared how he’s feeling more physically free, mentally clearer, and emotionally lighter, no longer weighed down by the fog of depression.

As he’s made these changes, I’ve started to feel like we’re able to have conversations we haven’t had before—more honest, more open, and more connected. Overall, it was a really good conversation, one where we both felt aligned and on the same frequency.



Here are mine/his/our resolutions for the 2026 Year

Focus Word: CONSISTENCY

Aljay

  • Manusina Art - Post twice a week on his Manusina_Art IG page
  • Bout2b_Fit - Post every day. 
  • Fix up our cars
Sandra
  • Complete the Mutu program
  • Finish my Project Management Certification
  • Prioritize my health- Go to the Dentist and Primary Care providers 
  • For my parents - power of attorney, will & estate plan, get added to their accounts
Our Shared Goals
  • Temple twice a month
  • Monthly Fasting
  • Daily morning prayer
  • Minister to our families
  • Meet monthly
Family Goals 

  • Weekly Family Councils every Sunday
  • Daily Come,Follow Me
  • Apply for a copy of my Naturalization Certificate
    • Complete/Start Aljay's Citizenship
    • Get passports for all the kids



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